SSPEED - A Dynamic Self Defense Plan Against Bullies and Other Predators.
SSPEED -A Dynamic Self Defense Equation Against Bullies and Other Predators.
IF YOU have been following my posts, you are familiar with my Tough Target Techniques for avoiding (evading) an attack by a bully, or, in the case of women, a stalker/ predator. The important thing is, if possible, to evade the attacker without having to fight. Preparation, Planning, Practice and Prevention - The 4 P’s of the Fighting Arts - comprise about 95 to 98% of successful self defense.
OF COURSE, we all know that is not always possible. Predators (for the sake of this post, I will restrict “predators” to bullies and male attackers of girls and women) almost always “tune up” for attacks through Verbal Testing. Michael Pace, a highly respected self defense expert, agrees, noting that “the preliminary for an attack is The Interview - the threats, questions, insults and/or the ‘woofing—” Most attacks start off with a “verbal assault because the predator wants to find out what he or she is up against - an easy target or someone who will give him or her a real fight. A Target Person (TP) who ignores these threats, insults, or questions”will open the door for an immediate physical attack.”
S.S.P.E.E.D TO THE
RESCUE:
MICHAEL PACE calls it “Faked Compliance,” and I call it Feeding the Beast. Call it what you like, but by faking compliance we are feeding the beast’s expectations. He is verbally accosting the victim and his/her Tough Target words and body language have not deterred him, so when he grabs the TP (Target Person), he is relaxed, overconfident and certain that the TP is a “free lunch,” or an easy target.
WHAT FOLLOWS is the SSPEED Counterattack Plan:
- The Predator grabs the TP by the collar & shakes the “victim.”
- Upon First Touch (by the Bad Guy) the TP raises both hands higher than the attacker’s, palms out, shaking them side to side in a “please don’t hurt me,” gesture and even says “please don’t hurt me!” This is Faked Compliance or Feeding The Beast’s Expectation at its best.
- The Bad Guy - expectations fulfilled - gains confidence in his assault’s inevitable success -moves closer, determined to throttle the victim.
- At this point - which is First Touch by the attacker- the Target Person (TP) should Explode forward, driving both hands from their “Compliant Position” into the Bully/Predator’s face, striking hard and often quickly (Speed), connecting unexpectedly (Surprise) using quick Palm Heel Strikes to the most painful, vulnerable targets - the nose, eyes, mouth - and/or, combining the very hard heel of each hand with slashing fingertips and nails (to be used for Deadly Attacks only/attacks by bullies are not usually lethal in nature) strikes to the chin and/or nose followed up with eye strikes and gouges.
- Palm Heel Strikes are ideal for quick (speed) surprise strikes to the face because one can hit from wherever the hands are without changing one’s hand position, plus, the heel of the palm provides a hard and powerful striking area which is both easy with which to strike and a injury-friendly area, even for a novice fighter.
- If the attacker has grabbed the TP with both hands, there is no earthly way he or she can block these strikes. Even if there is one hand free to block, though, I say go ahead and rain the bully with a storm of strikes - one strike will never ever do the job - until the threat is over. And, as the bully lets go to protect his vital targets, I guarantee other targets will open. I say, do it. Hit them and hit them hard.
S.S.P.E.E.D: Breaking It Down:
Speed: Although Power is important in knocking out an attacker, getting to a target first is essential to winning. There are aspects to speed that I will address is another posting, in this scenario, speed is manifested by striking with the hands exactly where the Bully sees them in the Compliant/Begging For Mercy Position. In other words, strike from that position without telegraphing the punch by drawing back either hand, which would effectivelt destroy the element of surprise.
Surprise: The element of surprise is the key to a successful counterattack. The TP has set up the bully by using the “Compliant Position” and the predator has “taken the bait.” In my Self Defense classes, the Palm Heel Strikes are Stunning Techniques, and Stuns are described as the “stimulation of overwhelming sensory input that is sudden, intense and unexpected–” Simply put, this means that the delivering a cluster of speedy strikes to open, vulnerable targets will weaken a bully/predator through a devastating series of Mental Stuns that effectively weakens the attacker, destroys his or her (false) confidence and opens up vulnerable targets.
Power: More on how to create and sustain pure Power in one’s techniques in the next posting.
Explode: Explosiveness differs from Power in many important ways. Look for another posting
Escape : I will address crucial E & E strategies in another posting, also.
Dynamic: I had to come up with a concept to complete my catchy “SSPEED” acronym. Being Dynamic, though, means, once a TP is approached, accosted verbally, and set up for an attack, he or she must be Willing (being willing is as imporatnt as, maybe more important than, being able) to carry out the SSPEED Plan of Action with 110% commitment.
HARRY HAMMER